Austin Toaf Rica

The bathroom is the most enigmatic of rooms, riddled with ancient and contemporary ritual. It is connected with cultural superstitions as well. According to the Celts, for whom water represented a reunion with the womb, a few silver coins in the bath ensured good luck. Adding the first snow of winter to the bath brought good health. Sage wisdom has it that roses in the bath bring love; lavender, happiness; rosemary; creativity; peppermint, revivification; and eucalyptus, freedom from pain. A recipe for romance calls for oranges and fresh mint leaves added to the bath and rubbed on the body—then allowed to air-dry Do you want beauty? Would you be willing to go to the extremes Cleopatra did? She is said to have bathed regularly in asses’ milk.
Bathing involves a religious significance in many cultures. For Muslims and Jews it is associated with purification and holiness. The complex bathing rituals of the Japanese are meant to facilitate mental clarity. Instead of seeing bathing as just a way to get clean like we do in the West, Eastern cultures get clean in separate quarters so that they can bathe. For Native Americans sweat lodges are used to facilitate healing of illness (everything from influenza to pleurisy) as well as to revitalize racial identity In Finland the sauna is a national institution. It is said that prior to the 1990s there were more saunas than cars in that country.

The bathroom is the most enigmatic of rooms, riddled with ancient and contemporary ritual. It is connected with cultural superstitions as well. According to the Celts, for whom water represented a reunion with the womb, a few silver coins in the bath ensured good luck. Adding the first snow of winter to the bath brought good health. Sage wisdom has it that roses in the bath bring love; lavender, happiness; rosemary; creativity; peppermint, revivification; and eucalyptus, freedom from pain. A recipe for romance calls for oranges and fresh mint leaves added to the bath and rubbed on the body—then allowed to air-dry Do you want beauty? Would you be willing to go to the extremes Cleopatra did? She is said to have bathed regularly in asses’ milk.
Bathing involves a religious significance in many cultures. For Muslims and Jews it is associated with purification and holiness. The complex bathing rituals of the Japanese are meant to facilitate mental clarity. Instead of seeing bathing as just a way to get clean like we do in the West, Eastern cultures get clean in separate quarters so that they can bathe. For Native Americans sweat lodges are used to facilitate healing of illness (everything from influenza to pleurisy) as well as to revitalize racial identity In Finland the sauna is a national institution. It is said that prior to the 1990s there were more saunas than cars in that country.

Powder your nose? Freshen up? Visit the restroom? Draw
your bubble bath? Take a shower? Isn’t this chamber we call the bathroom, necessary room, comfort station, or
water closet brimming with odd and eccentric images? It is the place of our most intimate daily or hourly rituals. Its symbolism embraces both our primal and civilized instincts. It is a place that may both enhance our personal sensuality and remind us that we cannot escape our physicality.
For the woman always seeking the aesthetic, the bathroom is a good clean challenge. It is the place where a girl looks herself in the eye first thing each morning and last thing at night, encompassing all that may mean. Here she may cast a critical glance at her body or lavish it with personal indulgences: soft plushy towels and hands-on caresses with scented oils, soaps, and lotions. For no other room is there more specialized, intriguing, and inviting ways to create the daily “spa—aah!” effect.
The spa—aah! effect is much more than rituals for hygienic feeling good or looking good. It’s an emotional and spiritual makeover too. The body and mind are things, after all, that every woman updates daily. She may begin with her morning bathing routine, but the spa—aah! effect expands as she moves through the different rooms in her house. The effect goes on to encompass the way a woman lives in the wide, wide world; it includes the visual impact she brings to other people, her sensuality; emotional bearing, and spiritual influence.
The spa—aah! effect is mystique from the inside out. A woman uses her mystique, her sense of personality and femininity; to touch and bless the people in her life. Creating the spa—aah! effect is to follow the wisdom of Christian Dior by remembering that zest is the secret of all beauty

You probably already have everything you need to create the look and feel of a house-becoming-home The rule of thumb in using what you have is this: See everything in a new way can the objects stuffed away in your closets be used for a different purpose, in a different place, or with a new disguise? Try on these ideas.
• Turn an object upside down or on its side. Try placing anything in an unusual setting and you’ll see marked changes.Things you may have grown tired of suddenly become eccentric bookends, candle holders, or conversation pieces.A vase you inherited, turned upside down, is a pedestal for a photo of the great aunt it belonged to. A garden angel, predictable on the front stoop, might be urban kitsch on your armoire. Books can be turned on their sides as bookends.
• Point things in various shades of white. Almost anything metal, wood, or plastic can be updated and freshened with a coat of cream or wash of pearl. Worn furniture or accessories look totally different with a whitewash. Update with a bowl of seashells in summer or a photo of last year’s ski trip in winter
• Mat, frame, and hang kids’ paintings in unexpected places: on a bathroom wall, beside a grand mirror beside school photos in the kitchen, inside the hall closet.
• Go sugar and spice when painting flea market finds. Mix bright reds with white and sand colors.Think Cajun and crème. Blend anything brass and bronze or copper for an earthy zest against neutral walls or fabrics.
• Modem family-friendly objects come into their own among inhented pieces pulled out of storage in the attic or basement. Mix country with urban!techno style to get a trendy eclectic appeal.

You probably already have everything you need to create the look and feel of a house-becoming-home The rule of thumb in using what you have is this: See everything in a new way can the objects stuffed away in your closets be used for a different purpose, in a different place, or with a new disguise? Try on these ideas.
• Turn an object upside down or on its side. Try placing anything in an unusual setting and you’ll see marked changes.Things you may have grown tired of suddenly become eccentric bookends, candle holders, or conversation pieces.A vase you inherited, turned upside down, is a pedestal for a photo of the great aunt it belonged to. A garden angel, predictable on the front stoop, might be urban kitsch on your armoire. Books can be turned on their sides as bookends.
• Point things in various shades of white. Almost anything metal, wood, or plastic can be updated and freshened with a coat of cream or wash of pearl. Worn furniture or accessories look totally different with a whitewash. Update with a bowl of seashells in summer or a photo of last year’s ski trip in winter
• Mat, frame, and hang kids’ paintings in unexpected places: on a bathroom wall, beside a grand mirror beside school photos in the kitchen, inside the hall closet.
• Go sugar and spice when painting flea market finds. Mix bright reds with white and sand colors.Think Cajun and crème. Blend anything brass and bronze or copper for an earthy zest against neutral walls or fabrics.
• Modem family-friendly objects come into their own among inhented pieces pulled out of storage in the attic or basement. Mix country with urban!techno style to get a trendy eclectic appeal.

Smart. Understated. Forgiving. These are words some designers
use to describe interiors that maximize livability. How can you
create rituals at home that invite you and your family to rejuvenate
a holy sense of place? Here are some experts’ ideas to build on.
• Seek serendipity. Welcome unexpected experiences as Sarah welcomed strangers to her home.
• Attend to details that amplify ambiance. Spend time setting the scene to get people in the mood.
• Play down unnecessary drama, Ignore unwelcome intruders such as grumpy moods or overindulgent expectations.
• Define the cathedral quotient. What helps your family members feel loved by the others? Brainstorm ways to make those connections.
• Get the most bang from your “construction” buck Invest in rituals that improve with age. Go for what’s interesting over what’s traditional or trendy. Find out what your kids love and do it!
• Create a lavish focal point for limited time together Play it up with things you know will generate pleasure in the experience: games, food, physical interaction, ambiance.

Guest room decor is about expressing yourself in a context that exceeds your guests’ expectations. I want my guests to be blown away with attention and to know that I’m delighted they’ve arrived. Simplicity is essential, along with a few radical surprises.
You can nix the chocolates on the pillow and come up with a whole new way to say “sweet dreams.” A guest’s primary needs are a place for belongings and a feeling of belonging in your place. Allow spacious open tabletops. Leave empty hangers in the closet, and why not tag them with pretty quotes on satin ribbons? To display fresh flowers, use wall vases that don’t take up room on a bureau and aren’t easily tipped over. Mix and match hand-milled soaps, lotions, and towels, the essential comforts of a stay away from home. You may want to throw a plushy robe over a chair and tuck a pair of fleece socks into the pocket. A tray with bottled water, a pretty glass, and fruit and crackers or mixed nuts is always appreciated. Leave an inspirational quote on the pillow in a pretty card.

To increase the feeling of “no place like home,” how about decorating for a favorite aunt with a three-dimensional wall hanging? Grandmother’s hand-me-down dress against one wall is reminicent of times when women didn’t always wear jeans. I drape a red cut- glass necklace that belonged to Grandma Daisy over a gold-framed mirror as a symbol of her love of elegant things. Photographs of her in elaborate hats and lavish lace collars add the charm of the gilded age I missed.
For a girlfriend, change out of the Victorian style by replacing Grandma’s dress with Mom’s. I treasure my mother’s fifties-era little black dress, so early “Jackie.” In this outfit, Mom looked like the princess she never recognized herself to be. I can change the whole context of a guest room by using that dress to achieve black-and-white elegance. Photographs of Parisian scenes, stored from the girls’ old rooms, replace the Victorian motif.

You’ll find other ways to express hospitality by combing the pages of good books and searching for details in the photographs of home and garden magazines. Tour model homes, and take mental notes when you visit the homes of friends.
A wise woman hears one word and understands two, so give yourself time to ponder. Most important, lend your prayers and your fervent attention to the art of making a stranger feel at home. Seize the sparkle. Take back the night. Your guests will love the difference.

when a granddaughter comes to visit, out come the little table and chairs and tiny tea sets. Yellow gingham with pink toilet draped over window and bed make the room seem fairy- tale-like too.
Guest rooms are a work in progress. I used to wonder what to do with all the books I’d collected over the years. Now, when a guest arrives, I pull those I imagine my guest will enjoy and stash them around the room for browsing: Cute volumes of stories for grandmothers. Motivational themes for go-getters. Gardening books, beauty and health magazines, and home design catalogs for girlfriends. I tuck these away in a basket on the floor or poise them on a shelf or bedside table. Photograph or coffee-table books especially make a pleasant exit to the day for a tired traveler.
A small table in a corner of the room can become sacred space when you leave a candle with matches to light it alongside a personal note of welcome. Some small icon from your natural habitat makes it an altar where your guest can be reminded that good things come from God and where thanks can be given.For my home, that might be a pretty pine cone, a vase of tall grasses, or a bouquet of red and black volcanic stones. It doesn’t have to be colorful; it just needs to be a token of the holy sense of place where you live.